Friday, June 21, 2013

Perfect woman fit challenge!

Hey guys! It's the first day of summer! That means its times for you to email me your before and after pics! I blogged about it a month or so ago so look back for more info. I'll be creating a post sometime this weekend/upcoming week including your before and after pics so email me to them now!! 


My email is askprfctwoman@gmail.com

Xoxo

Friday, June 14, 2013

Skreened.com

Hey all! I've had a skreened.com shop since I was the "prfct_grlfriend" but since then I changed my handle and added some new designs to the shop! They're not all relationship themed, as you can see here.

I make the shirts just for fun, but the commission I get off the shirts is going towards VDAY, a worldwide organization to end violence against women and girls. The website for the organization is HERE VDAY has events all over the country and world, it's truly an inspiration and an all-for-women type organization. 93% of their profits goes straight to the women and children in need. I'm not sure if you know anything about charities but that is a very high percentage!

However, I don't get commission right away, the way Skreened works is that there is about a month and a half waiting period before the comission is available for transferring. Every dollar helps! Remember, you can change the style of the product, from tees, tanks, hoodies, v-necks, whatever they have! All you have to do if click "more styles" to the right of the image of the current product. Prices DO vary.

So please feel free to scope out my designs, and tell me what you think!!

Link to my shop: PrfctWoman Skreened Shop

Thursday, June 13, 2013

"Second Chances"

Second chances are not for the faint of heart, they're for the strong willed, the ones who know what they deserve, the ones who know what they want and won't settle for less, the ones who can stand their own ground and be independent. Second chances are not for everyone, to give or take.

I do believe second chances work sometimes, emphasis on SOMETIMES. However, if you're giving someone a second chance, you have to be EXACTLY what I stated above. You can't give someone a second chance if you're weak. If you're weak, you're more likely to be taken advantage of. More likely to be hurt in the long run or short run. It's all up to YOU if you want to give someone a second chance, but if you're not in the right mindset, don't do it. Don't give in. People CAN change. But you not only have to give that second chance, you have to dictate how you go about that second chance.

If you're giving an ex a second chance, NOT INCLUDING CHEATING BECAUSE I THOROUGHLY BELIEVE ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER, sorry had to get that out of the way. Let that person prove themselves to you, not just with words, but with actions. If they follow through with plans and stick to their word, you're making good progress. Keep your 'guard' up, but don't make it a damn 20 foot concrete wall covered in barbed wire and an electric fence. That shit is for the birds. It's one thing to be strong and slightly guarded and it's another to have a guard so high that you're only going to hurt yourself. Again, this all relates to the very first paragraph of the blog. You may still have feelings for this person, you may still love this person, but YOU have to be in control of yourself. Don't be an emotional mess while giving someone a second chance because that won't work. Don't chase this person around like a puppy, don't become clingy. Show your independence, show your strength. If this person REALLY wants you in their life still, they will show you, they will make it up to you, they will prove their feelings and loyalty.

If you're giving a friend a second chance, most of the 'rules' stated above apply. Kind of. Minus the romantic part haha. Be strong, be supportive, and most importantly, forgive. Don't hold grudges, they will only make you a miserable person. Nobody wants to be miserable, so don't let yourself be miserable. Let go of your baggage, you'll be happier and a better person because of it.

It's Thursday, Thursday...

Might as well be Monday, because that is how today feels to me! Anyways, I've been busy with work and what not, my Blackhawks are in the Stanley Cup finals which is HUGE. They beat the Bruins in game one last night, in TRIPLE over time. Hashtag Oh My Word. So that's basically my life. I need to start hitting the gym twice as hard, I'm feeling sluggish and I haven't been able to get my usual two-hour work outs in. I shall get back to that ASAP.

I can't believe it's already June! Before we know it, it will be September. Don't hate me for saying that, please. I beg you. Not much going on in my life, just kind of going with the flow. I'm not hating it, but I'm not loving it. I guess I shouldn't complain. I just want to thank you all for being such great supporters of the @Prfct_Woman twitter account, a lot has happened in the past few months, all for the best of course. I take every experience and use it to fuel my fire. Even if it's somewhat of a 'negative' experience, I twist is around to the best of my ability and use it to my advantage. There's so much negativity everywhere you look, it's nice to come across something positive. What cracks me up the most is when people try to bash me, insult me, criticize me, and correct me. The funny thing is 99.51739% of you don't even know my real identity. You don't even know my first name, yet some people feel the need to judge me based on 140 characters. If you feel the need to judge someone on 140 characters, you need a reality check, STAT. What's worse is that some people think they know my whole entire life story, granted I do reveal some details but not enough for ANYONE to criticize. Some people act like I bully-tweet, and I don't, so why do they feel the need to try and insult me?

I really just think it's immature and insecure (see my jealousy blog post!). I am happy to tweet and share minor details about my life with you. As most of you know, I love the gym, target is my second home, twerking is my hobby, I say 'peasants', all in good-natured fun. I don't think I'm better than anyone, however I do think my favorite sports teams are better than everyone else's. (JOKE). I joke around, I poke fun, I'm sarcastic, but I have a heart and feelings. I'm not out there to bully or tell anyone to go kill themselves (BECAUSE THAT'S JUST HORRIBLE) unlike many anon twitter accounts.

This was just kind of a 'let it all out' post. I enjoy interacting and tweeting with you. Don't ever hestitate to tweet me or email me if you want to chat or need advice. I do my best to respond to everyone, but with 64k followers, that gets a little difficult sometimes! If you want me to blog on any specific topics, PLEASE let me know, today, tomorrow, or whenever. Tweet them at me or email me! askprfctwoman@gmail.com

xoxo

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Workout Playlist 6-4-13

Here's some songs currently on my workout playlist!

Blurred Lines - Robin Thicke
Rich as F - Lil Wayne
Here's To Never Growing Up - Avril Lavigne
Clarity (Tiesto Remix) - Zedd
Same Damn Time - Future
Tapout - Rich Gang
Girls Not Grey - AFI
Make It Bun Dem - Damian Marley ft Skrillex
Yummy - Gwen Stefani
Up up & away - Kid Cudi
They Like Me - Shop Boyz
Down On Me - Jeremih
Shake Your Pom Pom - Missy Elliot
Hey - Lil Jon
Do My Dance - Tyga
Riot - 2 Chainz
Everybody Nose (remix) N.E.R.D. ft Kanye

Enjoy! xoxo